There is this bird that thinks it cannot fly and hence cannot. Since flying is in it’s instinct, it doesn’t have to be taught how to fly. It only needs to be convinced of the instinct. It’s owner tries everything he can to do that, and so does the bird itself for it wants to fly too. But suddenly a dog starts chasing the bird and whoosh, there the bird goes, up in the air.
The dog compensates for the lack of emotional intelligence in the bird.
That’s how it works for us too. Either we should find dogs to push us out of issues we’re stuck at, or synthesize them in our minds. Simple stuff. Tried a couple of times. Works.